I know of no more encouraging fact than the unquestionable ability of man
to elevate his life by a conscious endeavour.
Henry David Thoreau

But this is an old and everlasting story: what happened in old times...
still happens today, as soon as ever a philosophy begins to believe in itself.
It always creates the world in its own image; it cannot do otherwise;
philosophy is this tyrannical impulse itself, the most spiritual Will to Power,
the will to creation of the world, the will to the causa prima.
Friedrich Nietzsche

This is our philosophy for therapy and coaching: Who you are right now, how you behave, things you want, things you want that you wish you didnít want, how you feel inside, the emotions that you feel when you are all alone... the whole thing, depends on how your brain-body is programmed right now.

The good news is: To a good enough degree, what was programmed once through blind evolution (and cultural conditioning) can be re-programmed again with foresight and clarity. The only secret here is realizing that who you are is not some unchangeable spirit stuck in the body of flesh and bones. Who you are is how you self-organised your-self in response to your environment, and how you in turn programmed the environment that originally programmed you creating a self-reinforcing loop that now appears absolutely concrete rock solid. (Complicated. I know.) It's an interesting cycle and there is a lot more to it...

So here is something nice and easy for now: Who you are is something that has the superpower to learn, evolve and change faster and with more agility than anything else on earth.


And that makes you limitless. Truly. If you can accept this.

The catch here is that this sort of transformation is an art that must be mastered, and not something one can stumble upon. One can stumble upon a great insight, or a lot of money through stupendous luck, or experience a sudden moment of ecstasy by chancing upon a rupture in the fabric of cause and effect... but such experiences are transitory and one is only left haunted by their memory and not exactly very enlightened either.

So that's not the type of transformation we are interested in.

My work with you will involve two things:

a. Transformation of mind (or consciousness, that inner feeling of one's own existence) for greater freedom, inner peace and a strong sense of purpose.

And, b. Realeasing you from the binding assumption that the absolutely convincing concrete demands of our social institutions are not actual reality. They are stories we all agree to agree upon. Much like money is a piece of paper, that is valuable as long as everyone agrees what it means, money is not inherently powerful any more or less than an immaculate white piece of writing paper. When you finally see through this veil, it's feels like a 50 kg load has come off your back.

So, this kind of transformation is possible. Itís usually a lot of work, but it's possible, especially if you know how to take the right steps, in the right direction, in the right order, and most importantly at the right time.


It doesnít take twenty years of therapy to bring some radical changes in the way you experience and respond to life. If you are ready, it can happen astonishingly fast. But you have to believe itís possible. This is the first critical step: You have to believe that there is a possibility that you can change AND you really have to want that sort of change of mind.

And there is also a second critical step: you have to commit to yourself to be honest to yourself. Honesty to oneís self means if you understand something to be true, if you find a truth that is within your heart, you have to commit to it and follow that path, no matter what. You cannot turn back after that.


Radical transformation of the mind is possible. But you have to believe it can be possible for you.

You are not alone. You never were. One true shift in consciousness can change everything.


What is a session like?


The session typically lasts a minimum of 1 and half hours. First 5 minutes is usually getting to know each other. And then rest is packed with action, transformation and inspiration.


Do I need any prior preparation?


Not really. However... its recommended that you read my book Redefine Your Reality before you call. That will save you a lot of time and energy and you will be in a better position to ask more informed and valuable questions. The ebook will be delivered to you automatically as a bonus (sales price $19) when you complete the payment below.


Do I have to take notes during the session?


No. The session will be recorded and a audio copy of the session will be given to you for future reference. This ensures that you can take in as much as necessary without wasting time and you can listen to the coaching session over and over again in the coming days.


Can you call me?


YES. We can call you for no extra charge at all if you are in USA, UK, Canada, Australia or Singapore (mobile numbers not accepted). If you are not in one of these countries, you can still call for free via Skype. The instructions are below. 


How many sessions should I book?


That depends entirely on you. You can choose between 3 packages as described below. Just remember, there is no magic bullet here and it takes 21 to 28 days of dedicated focus for any real transformation to take place, for our brain to re-organize itself, no matter what you want to try in life. It's just human nature. So, our suggestion is go for 4 sessions, which will give you 1 full months coaching time (4 sessions over 4 weeks).


Are there any bonuses included?


YES. You get the Redefine Your Reality ebook, immediately after you confirm the payment.


What if I don't have a credit card to make the payment?


Bank transfer is also available, if you would like to take that option, drop us a line at ryr.customer [@] gmail.com  


So How Do I Make A Booking?


Its easy as 1-2-3! Just follow the simple three steps below:

Step 1:


Choose from the available date and time for advance booking.


Fill in the form below. If you need more space, or want to any add extra information, email us instead with all the information below to ryr.customer [@] gmail.com


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Currently available slots for call in: Sundays, Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Fridays

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Step 2: Choose Your Package & Make Payment:


Please remember unless the payment is made, the booking is not complete.


Choose Package

Instant Bonus Access: All 3 options come with bonus Redefine Your Reality package that you will receive access to right after you complete the payment.



Step 3: Wait for our confirmation.


Once you receive our confirmation, call us at the exact scheduled time.


NOTE: All sessions will be recorded and a audio copy of the session will be given to you for future reference. This ensures that I can give you as much as necessary  without wasting time and you can listen to our call over and over again in the coming days. For this reason, you will need Skype to make the call as it ensures the best call quality, recording (we will do it for you) and also calling via Skype is also FREE so we do not have to incur any additional costs for the call. However, if you are in USA, UK, Canada, Australia or Singapore and if you'd prefer us to call you, we can call you for no extra charge (no mobile numbers accepted).


You can get free skype account here: www.skype.com

Looking forward to speaking to you soon.


Shafin de Zane, CHT, MH, MNLP
Hypnotherapist, Author, Coach





Letters From Old Students...



Hi Shafin,


Long time. Hope all's well with you.


Things couldn't be better with me. Sorry for taking so long to get back to you. So many things have been happening so fast I've been curious to see where they've been heading before I got back to you.

Since discovering your website I have changed so many things in my life and since our coaching sessions things have gone supersonic!


As you may remember we left our last session with me splitting up from my girlfriend and me finding a new place to live.


Well I found a good place with a nice flat mate and the rent was very reasonable. things are looking up I thought. Single footloose and fancy three with some good tools to improve my life....wait for it... not so..(i recall my father telling me don't think you've caught god by the legs...well I thought I'd caught him by the waist!!!


It turns out my poor flat mate, as sweet as he appeared to be was a heavy addict. I mean heavy... grass...codeine...gambling. I ended up losing my rent money, deposit and a thousand pounds that I lent him. he just went straight to the betting office and blew the lot.

His story is very harrowing...A victim of torture at 14 years of age in Iran. A political prisoner...now a political refugee He is a very sweet man and I couldn't think bad of him but my life was now going down the toilet. I knew I couldn't help him but the incident has resulted in him seeking professional help for the first time in his life which I believe is a very positive result.


I remembering you telling me not to go back to my old ways and you will be tested...well i sat the exam and scored a D!.


However through all that time I continued being vegan even though my flat mate, who is a doctor by the way, kept telling me I would get ill.

I also continued exercising  every day and concentrated on my short ,medium and long term goals.


I told you that I wanted an online school. Well to be honest that was no great burning desire. I finally accepted that my passion was my music. To become financially in dependent doing what i really love. Performing, recording and composing.


So now i have a problem... bailiffs at the door, no where to live and the prospect of having to move again( the 8th time in four years) to a cheaper part of London subsequently losing all the private students i had and being far from my friends.

Meanwhile a very dear fiend of mine ( probably the love of my life) was diagnosed with brain cancer. I had always talked to her about my favorite place in the whole world. A paradise Island off the coast of Spain called Mallorca. I always wanted to show her the Island. I had a holiday booked to go there when all this blew up in my face...but then I made a decision to go there and instead of chill out and lay on the beach I would find work and a place to live.


I lived in Spain for nine years and speak fluent Spanish. My friends were surprised...my mum worried.."isn't it about time you settled down" yes i thought and I know just the place.


Just before i left i downloaded The Dream Manifestor. Well I've got to say it gave me the drive and the motivation I needed.


My friend died of the cancer and I couldn't go to the funeral as I was moving to Mallorca on that day but when I walked out of Mallorca airport I knew we had both gone to heaven.

Shafin, in three weeks I have achieved more than I could have achieved in five years. I have a beautiful 2 bedroom flat with a big terrace by the sea, two minutes from a beautiful beach in a good area.


I have a good teaching job in a good school in the centre of town teaching 22 hours a week which covers my basic expenses leaving me time to record my next two albums, do some regular gigs an build a following. By the way, while I as arranging the move I was having  a shaky moment and was buying some guitar strings in a spanish shop in London. The owner is a friend of mine and when I told him I was moving to mallorca he told me that the flamenco guitarist, paco de lucia( the daddy of them all) was now living in mallorca....synchronicities and coincidences...sorted..no more doubts. I saw him in concert last week, front row!!!

Yesterday I received my certificate of residency and the immigration officer asked me how long i planned to stay in Mallorca for their record and I told him it was impossible to say.


He looked puzzled and asked me why. I told him that i plan to live here for the rest of my life and couldn't tell him exactly how many years that would be. I never seen an immigration officer tickled pink before.


Well I know there loads more to tell but I'll save that for another day. If you ever wants to see my idea of paradise I strongly recommend you visit mallorca one day.

I am now able to continue studying my neuro feedback course and have discovered that I will be the only practitioner on the Island...this will be a great entry point for me to generate a good income, guide people to the state of meditation without all the new age anxiety attached.

I am also doing the five tibetan rituals that you recommended. People who know me keep telling me that I am looking younger and younger. I don't need them to tell me. I can feel it.

I am still interesting in doing the intensive years coaching course with you but must first raise the funds doing what I love doing.. that is a promise to myself.

I was asked to give some feedback on the 4 week coaching course. Well I hope the above covers it. please use whatever you like from it.

I would just like to add that "Shafin makes the heavy feel light and the light feel good."

Hasta luego amigo!

Clark Berger




As a long-time student of yours, I feel blessed to have you there to help guide me through each of these steps when I (so frequently) forget my way.

The challenge along the way for most of us is remembering, then observing and learning when to be patient and when to take action. Most of us have spent so much of our lives in a state of sleep walking, it can be hard to stay focused when the "dragons" cross our paths.

Help is there, we just need to reach out and ask for it in the form of a coach that can help us see things we're not able to see on our own because we're too involved or too close to the situation.

I want to thank you Shafin. Not only for this e-book and all the other tools you've created through the years to help us along this path, but for being there to personally help guide me when I lose sight. You've helped me achieve things that I never would have been able to SEE on my own, let alone ACHIEVE.

When I originally signed on to your VIP program for a year, you helped me through one of the most difficult times of my life. I didn't only survive, I achieved some seemingly impossible things. It's a comfort knowing you are there when I need help REMEMBERING...

...this moment is perfect.

I can't thank you enough for all you do.


Certified Holistic Health Coach / Hypnotherapist
San Francisco, California


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